A Rite of Remembering
A Dionysian Religious Naturalist Ritual to Accompany "Sacred Nature, Wild Grief"
Wayne Martin Mellinger, Ph.D.
Designed for the CLUE Forum Approximately 30 participants Running time: 25–30 minutes
Purpose and design
This ritual gives embodied expression to the central argument of "Sacred Nature, Wild Grief": the environmental crisis is not only a scientific, technological, or political problem. It is also a crisis of relationship, belonging, memory, and moral imagination.
Religious Naturalism has often been predominantly Apollonian—strong in cosmology, intellectual coherence, scientific understanding, and ethical reflection, but comparatively thin in ritual, ecstasy, grief, and embodiment. This rite seeks to hold those dimensions together. Its clear structure, scientific cosmology, and carefully stated boundaries form an Apollonian container for Dionysian experiences of grief, breath, sound, gratitude, solidarity, and renewed commitment.
The ritual moves through five stages:
- Opening the Circle
- Remembering the Common Story
- Wild Grief and Environmental Injustice
- Reconnecting with the Living Community
- Commitment and Closing
The movement is from belonging, through grief and truthful witness, toward solidarity and repair.
Requirements
Space
- A circle or open horseshoe of thirty movable chairs
- A wheelchair-accessible path through the room
- A clear central space approximately three feet in diameter
- A small central table or cloth
- Enough room to pass a bowl safely from person to person
- An accessible exit for anyone who needs to step outside
- A room in which a bell, singing bowl, drum, or sustained vocal sound will not disturb another gathering
Materials
- One substantial bowl containing local soil, a stone, and a smaller vessel of water
- One empty bowl or basket for grief offerings
- Thirty slips of biodegradable or recyclable paper
- Thirty pencils
- Thirty seeds, small stones, or fallen leaves
- A map or photograph of the Mission Creek watershed (see note below)
- A bell, singing bowl, drum, or other single-tone instrument
- A battery-operated candle if a light is desired
- Printed programs containing the congregational responses
- Tissues and drinking water
- Printed information about CAUSE (Central Coast Alliance United for a Sustainable Economy), the recommended community partner (see note below)
Materials should be responsibly gathered. Living plants should not be damaged for ceremonial purposes, and seeds should not be distributed for planting unless they are appropriate to the local ecosystem.
Facilitation
The rite requires:
- One lead facilitator who delivers the spoken portions and keeps time
- One person responsible for the bell, bowl, drum, or sustained tone
- One or two support people who can quietly accompany anyone who becomes emotionally overwhelmed
- At least one complete rehearsal with a stopwatch
The support role is one of compassionate presence, not therapy or clinical intervention.
Participation and consent
Every element is optional. No participant should be required to:
- Speak publicly
- Reveal a personal experience
- Touch a ritual object
- Come forward
- Stand
- Hold hands
- Close their eyes
- Regulate their breathing in a prescribed way
- Affirm belief in God or any supernatural reality
Silent observation is a complete form of participation.
Cultural and interfaith integrity
The ritual should not appropriate ceremonies, chants, sacred objects, or practices belonging to Indigenous peoples or other living religious traditions. A land acknowledgment should be based on accurate local information and, whenever possible, on guidance provided by the Indigenous nation being acknowledged — see the sourced acknowledgment language below.
The rite does not presuppose a supernatural deity. It nevertheless leaves room for participants to understand sacred nature through their own Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, Pagan, humanist, Indigenous, agnostic, or other religious and philosophical frameworks.
Santa Barbara Adaptation Notes
The following acknowledgment and watershed language assume that the forum is being held within Santa Barbara and the Mission Creek watershed.
Land acknowledgment. UC Santa Barbara's Guidelines and Protocols for Welcome to Country and Acknowledgement of People and Country contains language vetted and approved by Mia Lopez, Chairperson of the Coastal Band of the Chumash Nations. One of the approved forms:
"I would like to acknowledge the Chumash people, who are the traditional custodians of this land. I would also like to pay respect to Elders both past and present, as well as other Indigenous people present."
Use this or an adapted version rather than composing new language independently — it carries the sourcing the ritual's own requirements call for.
Watershed. The Mission Creek Watershed is the appropriate reference for a Santa Barbara gathering — confirmed via the Santa Barbara Urban Creeks Collective, which notes that precipitation and runoff across the watershed converge and flow to the Pacific Ocean at a lagoon near East Beach. A map or photograph of Mission Creek itself, or of the East Beach lagoon where it meets the ocean, would work well as the visual reference in Movement 2.
Local environmental-justice organization. CAUSE—Central Coast Alliance United for a Sustainable Economy—is the recommended community partner. CAUSE organizes working-class and immigrant communities confronting environmental racism, industrial pollution, pesticide exposure, extreme heat, and unequal access to a healthy environment. Before the event, organizers should ask CAUSE to identify a current Santa Barbara County action that participants can support.
The Environmental Defense Center (EDC) is a legitimate secondary option if the forum wants to emphasize legal and policy advocacy specifically — EDC's Cat Canyon campaign helped prevent three oil-expansion projects it describes as among Santa Barbara County's largest environmental-justice threats. CAUSE remains the closer match to the essay's own argument, which centers organizing and frontline communities rather than litigation.
The Ritual
Preparations
Before participants enter, arrange the chairs in a circle or horseshoe. Place the soil, stone, water, watershed image, grief basket, and battery candle in the center.
Place a paper slip, pencil, and seed, stone, or fallen leaf on each chair.
The printed program should explain the general shape of the ritual and state:
Every spoken and physical action in this ritual is optional. You may participate aloud, participate silently, remain seated, or step outside at any time.
First Movement: Opening the Circle
Time: 2–3 minutes
The facilitator welcomes the gathering:
We are entering a shared practice of remembering, grieving, reconnecting, and committing ourselves to the repair of our living world.
This is not a performance and it is not a test of belief. Every spoken and physical part of the ritual is optional. You may speak, remain silent, touch or pass an object, sit or stand, or step outside as you need.
We will begin with the sounding of a bell. The same sound will close the ritual and return us to ordinary conversational time.
The bell is sounded three times:
- Once for those who came before us
- Once for the community of life now living
- Once for the generations yet to come
Facilitator: We gather within the living Earth.
Participants: We remember that we belong.
Facilitator: We gather amid suffering and loss.
Participants: We will not turn away.
Facilitator: We gather in hope and responsibility.
Participants: We commit ourselves to repair.
Second Movement: Remembering the Common Story
Time: 4 minutes
The facilitator offers the land acknowledgment:
I would like to acknowledge the Chumash people, who are the traditional custodians of this land. I would also like to pay respect to Elders both past and present, as well as other Indigenous people present.
The facilitator then names the local watershed:
We gather within the Mission Creek watershed, whose waters have flowed to the Pacific Ocean at the lagoon near East Beach for longer than any of our institutions have existed.
The bowl containing soil, water, and stone is passed around the circle. Each participant may touch it, hold it briefly, or simply pass it onward.
As the bowl moves, the facilitator reads slowly:
We are participants in a story that began nearly 13.8 billion years ago.
The atoms within our bodies were formed in ancient stars. The water within us has traveled through oceans, clouds, rivers, plants, animals, and generations of human beings. The soil beneath our feet is the work of stone, water, fungi, roots, microorganisms, death, and renewal.
We did not enter nature from somewhere outside it. We arose within this living world. We are Earth becoming conscious of itself—Earth remembering, grieving, celebrating, and acting through human bodies.
We are not isolated beings surrounded by an environment. We are members of a vast, evolving community of life. Our deepest identity is ecological. Our well-being depends upon relationships we did not create and cannot replace.
To remember this is to recognize that the Earth is not merely our property, our scenery, or our supply of resources. It is the larger sacred community to which we belong.
When the bowl returns to the center, water is slowly poured into it.
Facilitator: May we remember where we are.
Participants: May we remember to whom we belong.
Third Movement: Wild Grief and Truthful Witness
Time: 8–10 minutes
The facilitator introduces the movement:
Grief is not a failure of hope. Grief is one of the forms love takes when what we love is threatened, wounded, or lost.
Ecological grief may be grief for a species, a place, a river, a season, a damaged neighborhood, a way of life, or a future that has become uncertain.
This grief is also inseparable from justice. Environmental harm does not fall equally. Indigenous communities, communities of color, farmworkers, poor and unhoused people, workers in dangerous industries, and people living near polluting facilities are often made to bear harms from which others profit.
We will not speak of the suffering of the Earth while ignoring the suffering of people. Nor will we separate human justice from the flourishing of the larger community of life.
Participants are invited to write one word or short phrase naming something they grieve ecologically. They may also name a community, human or other-than-human, that bears an unjust environmental burden.
After a period of silence, participants may place their papers in the central basket. They may speak what they have written or make the offering silently. Those who cannot or do not wish to come forward may have the basket brought to them.
No discussion, interpretation, advice, or cross-talk follows an offering.
After each several offerings, the group responds:
Participants: We witness this loss. We carry it together.
When the allotted time is nearly over, the facilitator says:
We have room for a few more offerings. What remains unspoken is also held within this circle.
The movement concludes:
We honor what has been spoken, what has been offered in silence, and what cannot yet be put into words.
May our grief keep our hearts from becoming numb. May it deepen our solidarity with every community made vulnerable by exploitation and ecological destruction.
Participants: There can be no healing of the Earth without justice among its peoples.
A bell or bowl is sounded once, followed by silence.
Fourth Movement: Reconnecting with the Living Community
Time: 5–6 minutes
The facilitator says:
Grief tells us that we are connected. We grieve because we love, and because the wounded world is not separate from us.
Let us now return our attention to the breath that joins our bodies to forests, oceans, grasslands, plankton, and the atmosphere of our living planet.
Participants are invited to breathe naturally. Those comfortable with guided breathing may breathe in for four counts and out for six. There should be no required breath retention, because that can be uncomfortable or unsafe for some participants.
A low drumbeat, singing-bowl tone, or gentle humming begins. Participants may add their voices by humming a single sustained note. The sound should grow organically and then gradually subside.
The facilitator then invites participants to speak one word naming something in the living world for which they are grateful. The words may overlap, creating a soft field of voices rather than a formal go-round.
After the voices subside:
Facilitator: We give thanks for a world we did not make.
Participants: We receive its gifts with gratitude.
Facilitator: We belong to a community larger than ourselves.
Participants: May our gratitude become reciprocity.
Fifth Movement: Commitment and Closing
Time: 4–5 minutes
Participants take the seed, stone, or fallen leaf placed on their chairs.
The facilitator says:
Reverence is incomplete if it does not become responsibility. Grief is incomplete if it does not lead us toward solidarity, resistance, care, and repair.
Hold this object as you consider one action you are willing to take. Let it be specific and possible. It may involve protecting a local place, supporting an environmental-justice organization, reducing harmful consumption, joining a public campaign, assisting people displaced by ecological disaster, changing the practices of a congregation or institution, or bringing greater care into your daily relationships with the living world.
You do not need to announce your commitment. Let it be a promise you make in the presence of this community.
After a period of silence, participants may place their objects around the bowl of soil or retain them as reminders.
The facilitator says:
What we mourn reveals what we love.
What we love places a claim upon us.
May memory become gratitude.
May grief become courage.
May reverence become responsibility.
May responsibility become collective action.
Facilitator: The Earth is not an object outside us.
Participants: We are members of the Earth community.
Facilitator: Grief is not our final destination.
Participants: Grief becomes solidarity and action.
Facilitator: What will we protect?
Participants: The conditions that allow all life to flourish.
Facilitator: We leave this circle, but not the living community that holds us.
Participants: We remember that we belong.
The bell is sounded once, marking the end of ritual time.
After the Ritual
The ritual should not end with an emotional experience alone. Participants should receive printed information about CAUSE (see "Santa Barbara Adaptation Notes" above; confirm the current action to support with CAUSE before the event). If appropriate, they may be invited to record their commitments privately and revisit them after thirty days.
Any sign-up or registration for follow-up — a mailing list, a CAUSE action, a thirty-day commitment check-in — must be kept entirely separate from the grief offerings. Use a distinct card, table, or sheet for registration, never the basket or slips from the grief movement, so that no one's private offering becomes linked to their name.
The papers naming ecological losses should be handled respectfully. Participants should be told in advance what will happen to them. Possible options include recycling them, composting them where appropriate, or incorporating them into a later community ceremony. They should not be publicly read, photographed, or preserved without explicit permission.
A few minutes of voluntary reflection may follow the rite. This should not become an intellectual analysis of what participants disclosed. Appropriate questions include:
- What are you noticing in yourself now?
- What image, sound, or phrase remains with you?
- What form of action or relationship feels newly important?
- What support would help us carry these commitments together?
The ritual succeeds not because it produces a dramatic emotional response, but because it helps participants experience themselves as members of a sacred living community whose grief calls them toward justice, solidarity, and repair.
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